Daddymoon? Dadchelor Party?

Posted in Uncategorized on June 24, 2011 by River City Strippers

First time dads are celebrating the arrival of their first-born children with alcohol, tobacco and strippers? Shhhhhh, don’t tell the expectant mom!


Okay, admittedly, some women hire male strippers to come perform for expectant moms at the less traditional baby shower. It isn’t exactly common, but it does happen often enough that there is almost a sub-industry for these parties.


But the latest trend of Dadchelor parties is beginning to catch the attention of new dads-to-be.  Sometimes called daddymoons, man-showers or dadelor parties, these events are almost identical to the traditional bachelor party. And yes, there are usually strippers somewhere in the mix.

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Couples are waiting longer to get married, sometimes opting to not marry at all but remaining a couple just the same. This right of passage for new dads is an acknowledgment that he is going to be raising a child and the free wheeling days of non-parenthood are rapidly drawing to a close.


If the expectant mom can enjoy the attention of a male stripper at her baby shower, why not a female exotic dancer for the expectant dad? Of course, his buddies probably have more to do with the entertainment options for his daddy bachelor party than the dad-to-be. Some of the guests may already be married with children, and are looking for a good excuse to blow off some steam and behave like they did in their college days.


The dads that have gone before will probably share parenting horror stories with the expectant first time father. No sleep ever again. No sex ever again. Laundry, laundry and more laundry. Being caught out singing the Sesame Street theme. Uncontrollable temper tantrums. In public. Check out this video


When throwing a dadchelor party, it is probably best to keep any stripper related activity quiet. And you certainly don’t want any pictures of the event!



So how do you plan a dadchelor party? It is considered good form to bring diapers as gifts to a dadchelor party. Beer is standard fare as is barbecue.


Plan your dadchelor party at least a month before the baby is due, but pretty much anytime from the second trimester until the eighth month is fine. You don’t want to get a call that your partner is going into labor after you just downed a six-pack and a woman named Candy is just about to remove her bra in exchange for some $1 bills. Party buses and limo pub-crawls are also popular. Leave the diapers at home. Well, maybe one or two for the road would help explain the point of the party.


Generally it is the job of the dad-to-be’s best friends to give him this party. No females allowed! Popular party locations are sporting events, golf courses, casinos, camping trips and, of course, Gentlemen’s Clubs.


If your dadchelor party is going to be a destination party, (Vegas baby!) more advanced planning may be necessary. Don’t leave party planning until the last minute. You should probably start planning as soon as you can. Generally 4-6 weeks before the party is a good time to make plans and have everything finalized at least a week in advance. If there are men who are already dads in attendance, they can’t just run out the door and join a party; they need to plan for sitters and around any parent-child type of events.


Planning a dadchelor party in 10 easy steps:


  1. Become a dad! Wow, that was fun wasn’t it?
  2. Set the date of the dadchelor party. Double check with the mom to be.
  3. Make a guest list. The more the merrier!
  4. Make a budget.
  5. Send out invites. Text messages are usually fine, but follow up with an email or phone call just in case.
  6. Make reservations. Whether you are planning to have your party locally or out of town, don’t leave your venue options up to chance.
  7. Hire entertainment. Strippers are always a hit at these events. Maybe your preference is karaoke, but you still have to hire the karaoke host.
  8. Order food and drinks. Again, you don’t want to leave it up to chance that what you want/need for your event is going to be available.
  9. Confirm the date/time with your guests.

10. Have a designated driver. Having a limo or party bus is great fun and ensures everyone gets home safely.


So there you have it, easy-peasy dadchelor parties!


Read more about dadchelor parties:

The Week: Dadchelor parties

First Time Fathers party hard

Huffington Post

The Globe and Mail

Jezebel: First time dads say goodbye to freedom





Utah moves to make ‘Acting TOO Sexy’ in public illegal

Posted in News on May 28, 2011 by River City Strippers

In a major crackdown on prostitution a new law has made it illegal for people to touch themselves in a lewd way.
Two escort services in Utah have filed a lawsuit to try to stop the solicitation law, claiming strippers or escorts could be arrested just for acting sexy.
A person agreeing to sex in exchange for money is how solicitation is defined in Utah.

The new law, which was introduced in the state earlier this month, has broadened the definition to include any person who indicates through acts such as exposing or touching themselves that they intend to exchange sex for money. Lawyer Andrew McCullough, who is representing the escort services in the federal lawsuit filed May 9, said the law is so broad it could lead to police officers arresting pole dancers or strippers who are just doing their job. The expanded law includes language that states that a person exposing their genitals or touching themselves sexually is an indication that they are offering sex.

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Carmen Electra to host grand opening of Pussycat Dolls Burlesque Saloon

Posted in News on May 28, 2011 by River City Strippers

Sex symbol Carmen Electra will be the guest striptease star to open the exotic and erotic Pussycat Dolls Burlesque Saloon at Planet Hollywood on June 4. PCD producer and choreographer Robin Antin invited me to watch a dress rehearsal after the premiere of The Hangover, Part II on Saturday ahead of Wednesday’s soft opening of PCD Burlesque Saloon.

Wow! This is going to be one super-sensual lounge at the new Gallery Nightclub complete with stripper poles, a bejeweled fairground carnival horse, a seductive swing and a diamond-studded bathtub. Even the Pussycat Dolls name is emblazoned in rhinestones at the bar for the dancers to cavort their curves.

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How to Be a Male Stripper

Posted in How-To on May 28, 2011 by River City Strippers
  1.  It is not as easy as just working out and getting a good build. The first thing you want to consider is how comfortable you are going to be working in large crowds with people that are very drunk.
  2. Start leaning up your body and working out with high reps. No need to get big and bulky; just cut your fat, sugars, and salt intake and begin trimming up so that your build is semi-athletic and lean.
  3. Get some costumes with rip-away or tear-away clothing. Most tailors can do this for you easily. You can also use snaps.
  4. Burn 3 or 4 songs for a routine and make many copies of it. You will need the copies as you will leave behind your disks at the party.
  5. Practice your dancing. Especially if you want to do male reviews.
  6. Get your photo taken. Take a black and white photo and start calling agencies. Warning: some agencies will try to charge you to put your photo up and call it a fee. Get your photo and email them to agencies or better yet, send through U.S. mail as you are more likely to receive a call back since so many men submit photos through email.
  7. Get a pole set up in your bedroom so you can practice your routine at least three times a day. To get those big bucks you have to put on a good show. You can’t just rely on looks, so get your moves nailed.
  8. Get a stage name that lures the audience.
  9. Make sure your girlfriend doesn’t mind. Or just ask her to join you on the stage.
  10. Contact a well established agency who can sign you up to their books. Such as….well, River City Strippers is certainly a good option!

Colorado Burlesque Festival, 2011

Posted in Events on May 28, 2011 by River City Strippers

Lola Spitfire, Fannie Spankings, Midnite Martini, Honey Touche, and Bunny Bee would like to welcome you to the 2011 Colorado Burlesque Festival!

Logo for Colorade Burlesque Festival

Mark your calendars now for this weekend of tantalizing tease happening July 7-10, 2011 in Denver, Colorado!

World Famous BOB – Known for her over the top blonde bombshell image and incredible ability to mix martinis in her cleavage, World Famous *BOB* has captivated audiences all over the world with her unique burlesque stylings, humorous performance art, and MC skills.  She has been photographed by hundreds of photographers including Patrick McMullan, Mario Testino, and David LaChapelle. *BOB* appears in several books including Hotel LaChapelle, New Burlesque, Striptease: From Gaslight to Spotlight, Burlesque: The new Bump and Grind, The Brooklynites, and The Velvet Hammer Burlesque.

Also appearing – Tigger!, Michelle L’Amour, Miss Indigo Blue and Trixie Little and the Evil Hate Monkey…

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